July 25, 2006 6:34 PM
Christian materialism and greed
My latest article in Plain Truth magazine: (PDF format here)
Spiritual Survival in the Land of Plenty: Materialism, greed, and the gospel
On our first trip to New York City last summer, my husband Tripp and I ducked into one of the 167 Starbucks within five miles of our hotel on Times Square. It was there – while Tripp stood in line while I held our table that I experienced one of those moments of truth.
I was pursuing my favorite pastime, people-watching – the good, the bad, and the ugly – when the door opened to reveal a little brown boy in ill-fitting clothes. Completely out of place in this trendy environment where the only other kids were toddlers in designer strollers, the boy avoided looking around as he headed for the nearest table, where he offered a badly wrinkled piece of paper to a gaggle of prosperous-looking women who barely paused before handing it back. They never even glanced at him.
Next was a hip-looking couple, who shook their heads as though he were offering an NRA brochure.
I watched as the boy made his rounds. A dozen tables responding with variations on a theme – not a single kind word or glance. When he reached my table, I took his note and read:
“My mother is home with my three little sisters. Our father has gone and we have no food. Can you help us a little?â€It was written in pencil and so worn from worried crumpling that it threatened to soon fall apart. I gave it back to him and asked, “Do you speak English?†No. And the fact that I don’t speak Spanish left us with very little to say.
I emptied my wallet and my pockets and gave him everything I had – which wasn’t as heroic as it sounds because my husband was carrying most of our money. I didn’t feel like a saint, but a sinner. What in the world was I doing in Starbucks anyway spending so much for a drink and its fleeting pleasure – which I could certainly have done without? Rather than feeling somehow superior to the other customers who’d been asked for help and refused, I felt ashamed of my proximity to them.
I grew up poor myself – with a single mother and two little brothers in the inner city. I know what it’s like to go to sleep hungry when there just isn’t a thing to eat. We wore hand-me-downs and rode on buses. Everywhere I went – even rare forays into church – my feelings of being not good enough followed me like a mangy mutt I tried unsuccessfully to kick aside.
But it happened that by the time I became a Christian I was 38 years old and Tripp and I were married with five children, a lovely home, and a successful business in one of the top ten affluent counties in the country. We went to church with lots of splendidly successful folks just like us.
With the ups and downs of my background, it’s taken time for me to sort through the issues of God’s blessing, wealth, and success. Though at first I might have been naïve enough to think that somehow they were all related – after all I was poor before I knew God and fairly wealthy when I found him and wasn’t he responsible for that? – I’ve come to understand the subtleties that many churches – and churchgoers – seem prone to miss.
Our society, built on capitalism and free markets, has always measured success in one way and one way only: money. Consider: No matter how much homage we give to education, a well-educated poor man is not considered a success. And though the Bible tells us that children are a “blessing†and a “reward†we don’t consider a man and woman successful just because they have a lot of them (ask me – as a mother of 12, I know that even in the church this is the last way we measure success!) We don’t measure success by good deeds: Mother Teresa may be admired, but she would be considered an aberration, not a role model for success.
And if the philosophical/social foundation weren’t enough of a problem, the acceleration of consumerism and the power of the media to create desire and inflame greed has pushed our distorted view of success to the limits. How easy it is to get hooked on always trading up! What drives us to trade in a comfortable home for the newest McMansion on the other side of town? To trade in a reliable car for a newer sleeker model? What causes us to work longer hours away from our families to in constant pursuit of bigger and better “thingsâ€â€“ ATVs, home theaters, $20,000 Kubota tractors?
Wouldn’t you think Christians would be at least a little less vulnerable? Jesus gave us clear warnings:
“Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.†Luke 12:15Jesus must have known that for most of us, the struggle with greed, and our susceptibility to society’s obsession with material success would call for constatnt vigilance. He said “Watch out! Be on guard. . .†which causes me to cry out:
"Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him" 1 John 2:15.
Lord, help me to watch out and be on guard! Help me be satisfied with and make the most of what I have. Help me learn to keep less and give more!In light of these warnings, it seems almost unfathomable that many American churches in Christ’s name proclaim that we can will our way into success, that simply by speaking our desires in faith we can make God bless us with health and wealth – all the outer measures of success.
Never mind that the premise is flawed – the premise that health and wealth equal success and that success is something we should be striving for. Never mind that according to this simple-minded system anyone who loses a job or a child or his ability to walk simply lacks faith.
But to see God relegated to the role of Cosmic Vending Machine – put in the right amount of faith and out pops your heart’s desire – now that is painful.
Especially to people like Tripp and I, who spent seven years exploring every nook and cranny of the New Age, latching on to the principles of “prosperity thinking†and “creating our own reality†– backed by our guru with actual Bible verses – to stay healthy, build a business, buy a house, to attain all those outer symbols of success.
Of course, when we accepted Jesus as our Savior, when we discovered what it meant to remove ourselves from the throne of our hearts and to be willing to follow God, we put down those powers. Yes, there are truly supernatural powers you can use to create wealth and health. But make no mistake, they are not powers given to us by God, but by the Great Deceiver. This is not theory, this is my own experience.
I remember consciously counting the cost, knowing that by surrendering to God and giving up the New Age tools, we would be opening ourselves up to possible hardship. And indeed, since becoming Christians in 1987, Tripp and I have actually been on more of a rollercoaster – experiencing a couple miscarriages, the birth of a child with special needs, several financial setbacks.
But even as I counted the cost, I knew I could never give up my commitment to Christ, who brought spiritual healing to me and my marriage and who established peace in our hearts and our home. It was indeed that spiritual health and peace that helped us weather the real life difficulties ahead.
Imagine my surprise, then, after many years of surrendering my life to Christ, to hear New Age practices being preached from the pulpits of some of America’s most “successful†churches. Joel Osteen, pastor of Lakewood Church in Houston – with 30,000 attendees per week the largest evangelical church in America – could well be the PosterPastor for the Prosperity Gospel.
“Many of you today know this, you believe it down here in your heart. But the reason that you're not experiencing as much as you should is because you're not declaring it. You've got to give life to your faith by speaking it out. Your words have creative power. When you go around saying, 'I have favor, people want to be good to me and supernatural doors are opening.' When you make those declarations of faith, you are charging the atmosphere. And your own words can help to bring it to pass.†(Joel Osteen, “Experiencing More Of God's Favor,†(Tape # 212, Daystar, July 10, 2004)The picture of God as a Cosmic Vending Machine is not a Christian view of our Creator, but unmistakably New Age. It’s up to you and your faith to create success and there’s only one way to measure success: materially.
“Words are like seeds, they have creative power.â€
“You can change your world by simply changing your words.†(Joel Osteen, “Speaking Faith Filled Words,†Tape # 223. Daystar Television, May 2, 2004)
It was easy for me to think of God this way before I’d actually met him. Now it seems like an atrocity. And such an unbelievable aberration for Christians – who are supposed to have made a commitment to remove themselves from the throne of their hearts to make room for Jesus.
I think of Rick Warren’s first sentence in The Purpose –Driven Life: “It’s not about you.â€
I think of Mary breaking her alabaster jar and pouring ointment worth a few years wages over Jesus’ head, wiping his feet with her hair and her tears,.
I think of Jesus telling the rich young ruler, who claimed to have kept all the commandments,
"Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me." At this the man's face fell. He went away sad, because he had great wealth. Jesus looked around and said to his disciples, "How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!"The disciples were amazed at his words. But Jesus said again,
"Children, how hard it is[b] to enter the kingdom of God! It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God."If we took that seriously, I guess we’d all be praying that God would save us from being rich!
But isn’t that what it’s all about? Being a successful Christian is not in any way related to success as the world measures it. It is all about how closely we are becoming conformed to Christ and how well we serve him.
Over and over, Jesus encouraged/exhorted/commanded us to care for our brothers. This precept is truly what sets Christianity apart from all other religions. It is the reason we go to the ends of the earth – not just to preach the gospel but to live the gospel by feeding, clothing, and nursing those in need
The prosperity gospel is the opposite of true Christianity. 1Timothy 6:6-10 deals with it straight up.
But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. 1 Timothy 6:6-10
And that surely puts the more subtle tendencies in many “normal†churches to regard the wealthy as “favored.†There’s really no room for any of that in God’s kingdom.
I remember as a new Christian realizing the ugliness of my old belief in karma – that it was this kind of belief that allowed the misery in India to continue unabated, that encouraged people to pass by suffering without any response, thinking, “He doesn’t need help - he’s just working out his karma.â€
But when Christians posit the individual faith as the source or lack of health and wealth, isn’t that the same? Isn’t it a philosophy which gets us off the hook for responsibility for our fellow man?
If today a little brown boy wandered into your Starbucks or your church – or your church’s Starbucks (There’s one in the megachurch where we live!), what would your perception of the situation reveal about your faith? Can you say with assurance the prosperous people flocking around the frappes or in the pews are truly successful?
Or is it true what Jesus tried to tell the rich young ruler, that the trappings of success are truly just that – trappings?
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Comments
Wow. Good food for thought, Barbara, especially as my husband and I are looking to buy our first home.
It brings to mind something my younger sister was taught in her mandatory Health course in high school. The teacher handed out a story about a crab, and this crab worked hard and long and eventually ended up with a wildly successful business, with hot babes flocking to his million-dollar beach house, and was deliriously happy.
My little sis got into a disagreement with the teacher, and was very upset by the situation she was put in by him, and my father ended up writing a letter that truly struck me. He mentioned Mother Theresa, among others, and surely they would completely disagree with such a self-centered model destined to bring unhappiness.
The money=success=happiness model is truly ever-present in society today. I certainly don't want my children to learn this from their education.
Posted by: Emily | July 25, 2006 8:09 PM
So thought provoking, so challenging, so true...
We are very blessed materially. Life was so much less complicated when we were not. :-)
Posted by: jenmom | July 25, 2006 8:27 PM
that's cool. we haven't had many opportunities like that since moving back to MD but I want to find more. My boys were so young, too young to remember, taking the homeless man out for pizza. I think I have stopped looking. Thanks for reminding me to open my eyes and not be too busy with my family and our "stuff". You are so good at getting me to do then think.
Posted by: janet | July 25, 2006 9:44 PM
Awesome. Incredible. Preach it, Barbara. I feel the same grief as I observe...the world, the church...
Posted by: Holly | July 25, 2006 10:05 PM
That is so sad. People ought to remember, you never know when you are in the presence of angels.
Posted by: Christina | July 26, 2006 12:48 AM
My husband once asked God, "who are the poor?" And His answer was, "you are."
We know that Jesus wanted us to preach the gospel to the poor, heal the sick, and take care of the fatherless. It is shameful how that little boy was received.
Posted by: Angie | July 28, 2006 12:49 PM
Barbara,
Thank You for writing about Christian materialism & greed. We moved to a small town about three years ago and started attending a church that we finally figured out was preaching the "prosperity" message. We left as soon as we put two & two together, but while we actually attended it was so very easy to let the pastor suck us in and actually believe what he was saying. He actually has said that if you are struggling financially you don't have enough faith in God. What a burden we carried - being told that while struggling financially. This particular pastor also preaches againts leaving the church or the area for any reason - even missions. It's hard to believe looking back we stayed in the church the two years that we did - my husband and I attended a missions Bible college, and have attended many diffrent churches over the years. My heart is breaking for the people I know and love that attended the church, and believe what the pastor is preaching. I feel like they are being brainwashed but don't know it. What can my husband and I do? How can we bring the truth to the light to people who look down on us because we do not seek money? We could really use some advice on this topic!! Thanks!
Posted by: Sarah | August 22, 2006 12:54 PM
Amen Barbara! I have been so concerned about christians being deluded into materialism lately that I was starting to do research on the matter and this page was the first one I came across. Thank you for saying it so well. The "prosperity gospel" is certainly dangerous and even those outside that movement are very quick to justify having great amounts of material goods. Our nation is so blessed we don't even have a proper frame of reference for the problem. I have read of many poor but devout christians in other countries who have a joy that is purified by living so close to the foot of the cross. I fear that Satan has us in bondage to our greed and our "security blanket" of financial reserves. Thanks again Barbara, and bless you.
Posted by: Ed | May 19, 2007 9:55 PM
Thank you for writing this message. It is so true. I come from a church in Asia that is about to build a USD 8,000,000 church building. While not openly a prosperity gospel church, I do know that many struggle with materialism. Your well written note has encouraged me to write to the pastor to ask him about what sort of church we would be after we build a much bigger structure. Looking at the church records, all the money seems to have been inward related. It goes to more staff, more support programs, etc. Actually, USD 8 MM can build 120 churches in India and Indonesia. I hope that - if there is any thought of investment - it is in spiritual investment for the future; for Christians or just people in poorer neighborhoods and countries so that their lives can be better. It would be good to always remember that our Christianity should be the sort that feeds the poor and houses the homeless and gives rest to the widows and orphans. Thanks again
Posted by: Hsu Jenn | June 16, 2007 9:38 PM
Thanks Barbara. It's so true. I am Christian and an immigrant in the USA and I am terribly shocked by the prosperity message and the materialism in churches. I can't find a scripture that validate this kind of teaching ... the scriptures they use to fleece the flocks are out of context or distorted. I am horrified and completely traumatized by the messages of the prosperity preachers ... they put so many yokes on the people ... I am constantly praying for the people of God. You are right, God doesn't measure success as the world does ... why do the prosperity preachers do that to the people of God? How people can be so greedy? Where do they get their reasonings from? from the New Age movement? I can't find any scripture in the Bible that validate their teaching ...
Posted by: Nicolette JACKSON | January 15, 2008 10:17 PM
Amen and thank you for speaking out...I wish more people that attend these churches would open their eyes and think about who and what they are giving their hard earned money to. I volunteer at a homeless shelter in Maryland and see so many homeless and these include widows which we know the church should be supporting. I attend a church that recently began preaching a 3 month- tithing money back guarantee baloney. It seems as if it's everywhere and the people just line up to be deceived. We are under grace and are to give what and where the Holy Spirit leads us to. This christianity is not the new testament christianity I read about in my bible. I believe it is the counterfeit. Recently I stopped at an shopping oulet and could not believe the prices of things there..so much excess spending while so many are without even the necessities that we take for granted. This bothers me and I pray that we would all be the one reaching deep in our pockets to help the less fortunate as christ would have us do. Starbucks coffee is over priced and of course not a necessity. As for the prosperity message, sometimes I have to wonder if most people do know the truth but because the heart is naturally wicked and greedy they like the idea of the genie in the bottle and the get to give mentality. I believe they also lose their compassion by believing this lie. As I talk with the homeless they have no desire to attend church but they still have faith in God. Sadly not much if any support is given by churches to missions or charities like this one. Be rich in Him!
Posted by: Donna | April 14, 2009 6:20 PM
Our pastor spoke recently on materialism, and what really stuck with me is how he compared America's view with the rest of the world's definitions of "rich" and "poor". While I often lament what seems to me to be great financial instability, I can't help but wonder how rich I would look to someone starving in the 3rd-world. There are so many things with which I am blessed, too many to list, but I am taking small steps to try to appreciate that blessing. Sorry, I'm rambling along filling up your comment box. Anyway, I wrote a post on material wealth (linked below) that I suppose sums up most of what I want to say.
http://8poundpreemie.blogspot.com/2011/01/i-want-to-live-in-america-where-even.html
Posted by: 1st-Time Mommy | February 1, 2011 1:19 PM
